Private Family in Smithtown, NY Seeking a Butler / Household Manager
Position: Full-Time Live-In Preferred Butler / Household Manager
Schedule: Tuesday–Saturday, 40 hours per week, with flexibility as needed
Salary: $90,000 annually
Start Date: ASAP
Overview
A private family in Smithtown, NY is seeking a highly professional, discreet, and service-oriented Butler / Household Manager to oversee the daily operations of their home. The ideal candidate will be organized, adaptable, and able to anticipate the family’s needs while maintaining a smooth-running household. This is a live-in preferred role, with separate private accommodations provided.
Responsibilities
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Oversee and manage day-to-day household operations to ensure the home runs efficiently
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Serve as the family’s primary point of contact for all household needs (“go-to” person)
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Assist with family support, including driving three children to and from school and activities
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Prepare meals and assist with cooking on a regular basis
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Handle errands, grocery shopping, and household supply management
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Manage vendors, service providers, and home maintenance
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Keep household areas neat, organized, and guest-ready at all times
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Provide support during entertaining, assisting as needed with hosting guests
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Exercise discretion, confidentiality, and professionalism at all times
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Coordinate with the part-time housekeeper (who works 2–3 days per week)
Qualifications
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Prior experience as a Butler, Household Manager, or in a similar private service role
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Highly organized, detail-oriented, and quick-thinking
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Warm, professional, and adaptable personality with excellent communication skills
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Service-oriented with the ability to anticipate needs and take initiative
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Valid driver’s license with a clean driving record
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Respectful of privacy and confidentiality at all times
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Flexibility to live on-site (private guest house accommodations available); open to relocation candidates
Compensation & Benefits
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Competitive salary of $90,000 annually
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Private accommodations in a separate guest house (for live-in candidates)
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Opportunity to work in a long-term, stable household environment